Friday, January 17, 2020

7QT: Just Life Lately


I went to the ObGyn for a healthy checkup for the first time in my married life without being pregnant!  When you're having a baby every couple of years, your gynecological exams just get thrown in there, but once your baby is three, you actually need to schedule these things!  Who knew?

  Ok, I actually knew, but I was not in a rush to do it, until my general practitioner reminded me.  That's a good doc.  So in the last few months, I've gone to the dentist, oral surgeon, had my yearly physical, my first mammogram, a dermatologist checkup, the ObGyn visit, and next week I'm seeing the orthopedic doc about my shoulder pain.  Guys, if medical visits were a sport, I'd so be winning.  I'm a huge believer in preventative maintenance, mostly because my family is filled with doctors and nurses, but also because so many things are easily treatable WHEN DETECTED EARLY!  So, if you're putting off that appointment, then stop it!  Be good to yourself, even if you have to shave your legs and let your belly fat hang out in the open.

Friday, January 10, 2020

7QT: Life Since Christmas

Helloooooo!  It's been a minute or two since I last checked in here.  I hope you are all settling into 2020 with perfect vision :)

Here's what we've been up to:


Behind my parent's ice cream shop on Cape Cod was a little restaurant that served THE BEST fish chowder in all the land.  The owner was Chef Sigmund, an immigrant from Poland, who rented the building from my Dad and was the source of my lunches a couple times each week in the summer.  I could eat a pint of chowder with two packages of oyster crackers like it was nobody's business.  When Mr. Gajowniczek (the man St. Maximilian Kolbe saved) came to stay at our home, it was Chef Sigmund who lovingly prepared a traditional dish from his homeland and shared the meal with us.  Long story short, an old friend of mine let me know that Chef Sigmund's son had reopened a shop selling his dad's chowder in a different town on the Cape.  I was able to pick up a couple quarts while we were down before Christmas, and the memories tasted so good!

Tuesday, December 31, 2019

Christmas 2019 With Too Many Pictures

Because if you don't take a million photos, did it ever really happen?

Ahhh, Christmas Eve.  The best day of the year.  We went to Mass at 4pm as a whole, healthy family (which is a rarity the past few holidays!) and my four oldest boys served.  They always serve every Mass they attend at our parish, but seeing them serve on Christmas, with a whole bunch of other boys, all decked out in red and white is really beautiful.

Snuck this photo during the homily when Father asked the kids to come forward.  Brendan and Declan are up there!

Bi-Annual Church Family Photo - Christmas and Easter!

We went home and the kids got to open a gift from each other (Secret Santa style) which is always amusing!  This year's big laughs went to Brendan for buying Xander a princess ball, Declan for buying Maggie a bracelet that says "Brother", and Andrew for wrapping up a watch for Declan over and over again to form a huge gift.  Declan kept opening each layer, like whaaaaat?

Monday, December 23, 2019

A Cape Codder Resort Family Getaway

Last year, I found out that a nice hotel on the Cape, The Cape Codder Resort, had some fun Christmas-y things going on.  I told Phil, and we planned to drive down one late afternoon/evening before Christmas.  But, fate decided to interrupt those plans by giving us all the stomach bug, one at a time.  So this year I was more determined than ever to go!  

Begin Rant:

{I actually used to work at this hotel, as a waitress in the breakfast restaurant, during the summer between high school and college.  I waitressed from 6 am until 1 pm, went home, ran some miles, showered, napped, and then worked at my parent's ice cream store from 5 - 11 pm, closed the store, got home at midnight, sleep and repeat.  Plus, I babysat every Friday night.  I think I lived off of yogurt, strawberries and ice cream that summer.  It was a busy time, spent saving up money for college, and it's why I can't stand the sight of a lazy teenager.  Go get a job already!  At least one!  I always had two or three!!!}

End rant.

Anyways, all that was just to say that I used to work at the Cape Codder, and now I wanted to go with my family and actually *enjoy it*.  We decided to make it a Christmas gift to each other and stay  overnight.  Live the good life for once, ya know?  

And boy, was it the good life for 24 hours :)

We checked into the hotel and took the kids out to dinner at Friendly's.  Not the parent's fave, but the younger ones certainly love it.  

Then we went back, got changed and headed to the indoor water park!

Tuesday, December 17, 2019

Will You Let God In?

The Catholic high school where Phil and I work, and our two oldest attend, sends out an Advent reflection each morning.  They are written from faculty and staff, current students, and alumni and friends.  John-Paul was asked to write the reflection for today, and I thought that his message was great, even if his word choice was a bit redundant (I know...tough love!  I think he was trying to reach a specific word count).  I needed to be reminded of this today, so without further ado...

Tuesday, December 17, 2019
Third Tuesday of Advent
John-Paul Martin   |  Bishop Stang Class of 2021
           1st: Genesis 49:2, 8-10
       Psalms 72:1-2, 3-4AB, 7-8, 17
           Gospel: Matthew 1:1-17
Will You Let God In?
In today's gospel, we hear about the genealogy of Jesus from the beginning of Matthew. This is the passage that lists the names of Jesus' ancestors going all the way back to Abraham, with 42 generations in between. There are not that many people who like this Gospel because it drones on and on, never seeming to end with the names. However, if you look closely, you will see that this list of people is actually a very interesting story. I did some research, and it turns out that Jesus had some very interesting ancestors. In fact, there are four women mentioned in this genealogy, and of the four of them, two were prostitutes and one wasn't even Jewish. Also, David and his son Solomon both did some terrible things in their lifetimes, even though they are considered to be some of Israel's greatest leaders.
However, it is in this family that God was able to save the world. And, sadly, I imagine that there's brokenness in your family, just like there's brokenness in every family. I imagine there's a lot of brokenness in your life, just like there's brokenness in everyone's lives. But the truth is that even in the midst of brokenness, God can use it to bring out good. This is the story of Christmas. This is the reason why we read this genealogy. Because we realize that Jesus didn't come into a perfect world, from a perfect family, into a perfect environment. Jesus entered into our imperfect world, in a very imperfect environment, from an incredibly imperfect family. But even in the midst of this, He was able to do the most incredible thing in history.

All of us have broken hearts, and we have broken lives, we have broken families, broken relationships. But if we allow God into them, if we allow God into these crooked hearts, and these crooked relationships, and these crooked lives, and these crooked families, then we realize that what God did through this family, he can do in our family. Because God can write straight with crooked lines. We just have to let him in. This Christmas, let him in to your crooked heart, crooked relationships, crooked life, and crooked families. And let him do something amazing.

John-Paul Martin, Current Student, Class of 2021

Friday, December 13, 2019

7QT: A Book Giveaway!, Hobby Lobby, and Becoming Saints

Happy Friday the Thirteenth!!  Are you superstitious?  I'm just a little stitious ;)


Every time I sit down to write these takes, I have to do three things:

~ Look at our calendar from the past week
~ Look at the photos on my phone
~ Check my instagram feed

Do you know why I do all these things?  Because otherwise my frazzled, tired mom brain can't remember what we did, which therefore means I have nothing to write about in these weekly updates.  OK, just thought you should know how being me works.  Thank you, next.


Don't forget to enter the giveaway right here to win THREE wonderful books from Sophia Institute (I reviewed them in my last post).