Friday, September 8, 2023

Week in Review: Life's a Beach and the Kids are Alright

 What a HOT week we have had here in Massachusetts.  I think yesterday was the hottest day of the whole summer and of course, it happened after everybody went back to school.  The poor kids are sweating (and poor teachers too) because air conditioning is non-existent in schools around here.  Due to the heat yesterday, the kids got a half day, so we took advantage and went to the beach:

I did not get into the water because warm end of the summer water = jellyfish but these boys are not scared and fared well.  Brendan did see a moon jellyfish.

Last Friday, I took the day off from work and got a lot of errands done which always feel great to check off before the long weekend.  Phil and I snuck away for dinner with a friend then we stayed and listened to music for awhile (notice the jackets, this was right before the heat wave!)


On Saturday morning we went for a 6 mile run, our longest and slowest of the summer, worked at The Cottage all day and attended the birthday party of a friend that evening, smelling like waffle cones which many people commented on as I hugged them.  Hey, there's worse things to smell like :)  

On Sunday we went to the beach with a few friends after a day at the ice cream shop, and it was beautiful:



Monday was Labor Day, and Phil had to work at The Cottage that night, so he offered to take the little kids to the playground and the local feast that was happening in our town while I took a nap.  That's another secret to a happy marriage :)



These photos remind me to make a note to moms-of-many.  There are phases or "seasons" in motherhood, where it's so easy to feel guilty that we are not doing enough for one or two kids because we have to focus more on others.  I remember feeling really badly that my little guys basically lived life around the bigger kids needs.  They would get dragged along to sports practices and games and I would think about how my older kids had fun little kid things to do but my little kids only had boring big kid things to tag along on.  But then...then...it switches!  And suddenly we are doing all sorts of fun things with the last ones while the big ones are working or away at school.  And it all works out in the end.  You may not be able to do everything for everyone at the same time, but you can do a lot for everyone at different times.

Oh my goodness, I forgot to tell you all the best news!  Andrew's echocardiogram came back "perfect" so he is cleared to play soccer again!  Since he hasn't been practicing with the team, he is currently the ball boy at games, but he hopes to work his way up to the top of the reserve team.

Cutest ball boy in the yellow pinnie

Maggie's volleyball team had their first game away, and I watched online as they just barely pulled out a big win.  I was so proud of my girl.  She's the only sophomore on the team and she played in so much of the game, both front and back row though she is an outside hitter, which normally means she would sub out in the back row.  It's really fun to watch your kids in their passion.

Maggie for the kill

I stole this photo from their high school social media of the opening school Mass, where Maggie was a candle holder (I feel like there's a real name for that):


Eamon had his cast switched again because he said it was too smelly to keep on until next week, and now he only has 6 days left until freedom.  He can.not.wait to be back playing in soccer games and generally not smelling.

JP is doing well too, living his best life at Franciscan with his good friend as his roommate, his girlfriend in an on-campus apartment, and a car at his disposal:


Here's to thanking God for a healthy and happy family, and looking forward to a cooler week ahead.  Have a great football watching weekend everyone :)

10 comments:

  1. I feel like my little kids LOVED going to the older kids' games. We used to bring tons of stuff for them to do too. The coach once invited Reg to sit on the bench during water polo games, which was so fun for him. I do agree though, later when the little guys were older we were able (both time wise and financially) to treat them to more adventures. I love your positive outlook.

    GREAT news about Andrew. Hooray. I hope he gets into the game rotation soon. Congrats to Maggie - what a sweet pic. Curly finally started getting playing time and even starting on the varsity volleyball team. We were getting kind of frustrated, because why not leave her on the sophomore team so she could get playing time. She's really enjoying some of the girls. Wednesday night they won 33-31 and Curly scored the 32nd point. That was a long, exciting game.

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    1. So exciting that she scored the winning point on a game like that! My kids do not love going to big kids games, but I also do not bring stuff for them to do. You are much better prepared than I :)

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  2. That text response from JP is just amazing. What more could you ask for!

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    1. Right? Helps us sleep soundly at night :)

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  3. That's such a good perspective on the time devoted to kids' activities! Just today my oldest was grumbling about coming to her younger sister's soccer game and I reminded her of how very many of her own soccer and basketball games her sister has come to over the years. (fingers crossed there comes a time when she is HAPPY to be there and cheer her sister on, but that day was not today...) The two littles are definitely just along for the ride at this point. It will be strange, but good in a different way, when it's their turn!

    I'm so glad Andrew's echo came back normal! And glad for the thorough workup so that you *know* he's fine.

    We had the same heat wave this past week but somehow the kids managed in school with fans and frequent water breaks. Their school sits up on a hill with lots of cross-breezes so it always feels at least 5-10 degrees cooler than the surrounding area -- usually a BAD thing in winter when waiting outside for them to be dismissed, but I was grateful for their sakes this week!

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    1. It's very strange when you start doing more for the littles than the bigs, when you're so used to it being the other way around. And then the bigs start saying how spoiled the littles are. Parenting is fun!!

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  4. Really appreciate these words of encouragement about how what we do for the kids in a bigger/wider family "evens out" over time!!

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    1. Thank you, I don't think anything can ever fully take away mom guilt or worry, but hopefully it can lessen it to know things are just seasons :)

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  5. Your Motherhood sentiments are so sweet. It's the ole switch-a-roo. I have a feeling you and Phil make ALL of your kids feel special, no matter what stages you're in.
    No A/C in the schools? What sort of madness is this?
    Fantastic news regarding Andrew's heart!! ❤️

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  6. So happy to hear that Andrew is ok!! Sounds like all the kiddos are doing well!

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